What I want in a partner (spouse).

Honestly, I want LOVE
And everyone else definitely wants that.
My heart and soul crave love.
Real love, genuine love.
Because genuine love encompasses affection, kindness, care, compassion, intentionality, always readily taking responsibility for me and what's mine, giving me happiness, comfort and a sense of belonging, being mindful of & careful with my heart no matter what, trusting my actions, decisions and opinion, whose obsession would never get to affect me negatively, make me shade tears or have any regret. One with whom I would have peace, our peace of mind matters.
A partner who would always consider me when making decisions, having eyes for me alone, not doubting me or giving me reason to doubt.
A pattern with a very clean, smoothe and pure appearance, also with a good sense of humor
(Don't be a joke and don't be too mean).
I want a partner with genuine love for me who wouldn't hold back showing it.
A partner whose every word and action towards me echoes love.
A partner who is very romantic to me but quite aloof to my fellow gender making others wonder how we got together .
A partner with whom I would always feel safe.
A partner I would trust without my trust being betrayed, taken for granted or taken advantage of.
A partner I would forever be happy to have and vise versa.
A partner who would always be there to support me, always proud of me and never ashamed of me at any point.
A partner with whom I'll never be able to imagine being with someone else, a partner who alone can only be the one for me, who alone can fit into my life, which alone matches being my partner. A partner whom we can only do life, marriage & togetherness with each.
A partner who would always be my best friend.
A parter we'll both make Heaven being with each other.
A partner we'll both raise Heavenly children.
A partner who can represent me in my absence and vise versa.
A parter whose love would keep strengthening mine to as well give back same geniune love in full.
A partner whose love for me would never weary or end.
I want a parter who is an embodiment of love (especially for his partner/spouse)
I want a partner who woude be a compensation to me for my past years, giving me the love and comfort I never really enjoyed.
I want a partner between my perfect age range.
And sincerely, I want a partner who has never known another (sexually pure).

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